Safer Sex
Healthy and self-determined sexuality is important, because it is part of a fulfiled life. Enjoy everything that is part of sex but protect yourself properly, because safer sex means taking responsibility for your partner and yourself.
Stay safe and always stick to these three safer sex rules:
- Always use a condom during sex
- No sperm or blood in the mouth
- Visit a doctor with itching, burning or discharge
By sticking to these rules you will protect yourself against an unwanted pregnancy and possible transfer of the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), as well as further sexually transmitted diseases (STD/STI) that can be transferred by exchanging bodily fluids. You can find out more about safer sex at lovelife.ch.
Frequently asked questions
How do I find the condom that fits me best?
Make sure that you choose a condom that fits perfectly. If the condom is too loose then it may slip off, if it is too tight then it may tear. A well-fitting condom covers the entire erect penis, although it does not have excessive folds. The condom that fits can be rolled on with ease and no effort, with the thumb and forefinger. The ceylor range includes a wide range of models in standard sizes. Thanks to the highly elastic latex material, these will be suitable for most of you. Otherwise, the ceylor Large is available for big love, as well as the V-shaped ceylor Tight Feeling with narrowed opening, for a particularly firm hold. In addition to sizes and shapes, you can also choose from coloured, flavoured and dotted models. With or without lube. Produced from natural rubber latex or latex-free polyurethane. Not yet found your favourite? Then we recommend the ceylor Fun Pack, which contains a range of condoms and guarantees you will find your favourite.
Why should I use lube?
It promises fun during lovemaking and brings variety. Set no boundaries with your fantasies and desires. The motto is give it a try! On your own or as a couple, with or without toys, for various tastes or as a massage gel, for erotic foreplay; lube ensures a gentle and long-lasting gliding sensation and carefree climaxes.
Which lube should I use?
Only use lubricant gels that are labelled suitable for use with condoms. Lubricants containing grease, such as Vaseline, baby oil, body lotions, massage oils, butter, margarine, etc. must not be used because they impair the characteristics of the condom.
How should I store my condoms?
Condoms should be stored at a temperature of between 5 and 25 degrees Celsius: All ceylor condoms are well-protected against damage, as long as they are packaged in their original condom pod. However, when travelling or on vacation ensure that your condoms are not damaged due to frost or heat effects. Rucksacks that are exposed to the blazing sun or the hot glove compartment in a car are not suitable storage places for example. Condoms should not be exposed to extensive temperature fluctuations either. Before use, always check the use-by date. This is noted on the base of each box and on the back of the condom pod. Do not use the condom once the use-by date has passed.
My penis becomes flaccid as soon as I wish to put the condom on.
If you both know that you want to sleep with each other and use a condom then problems rarely arise. Or expressed more plainly, these problems are not related to the condom: Erectile dysfunction may have a variety of causes of a physical or psychological nature. Simply relax, or even better: Enjoy! If putting the condom on becomes a sensual part of foreplay then the erection is usually unaffected. Put it on together with your partner and do so with imagination. Enjoy every element of sex.
It's just no fun with a condom.
This is a preconception that is simply not true. Today, condoms are wafer-thin and elastic, so that you can barely feel them. And if you have the feeling that the sensation is perhaps a little affected then this is no disadvantage. On the contrary: Many enjoy it when the climax is drawn out - and it's not all over almost before it began. And there are no longer any excuses when it comes to feeling or compatibility if you use the ceylor Non-Latex Ultra Thin condom, which guarantees you an intensely intimate sensation.
My new boyfriend has a latex allergy. What now?
ceylor condoms are produced from natural rubber latex. If your boyfriend has a latex allergy (the symptoms of this are localised itching, burning or pain) then simply use ceylor Non-Latex Ultra Thin condoms. These are manufactured from polyurethane and are completely latex-free. However, it may not be the latex that is causing the discomfort. It is always advisable to have the intolerance reaction checked out by a doctor.
My boyfriend doesn't want to use a condom. What should I do?
Don't sleep with him and don't satisfy him orally without a condom either. Always stick to the rules of safer sex. No one other than you is responsible for your health and for preventing an unwanted pregnancy. Therefore: Safer sex, no ifs and no buts. Taking a risk can have fatal consequences. Be brave: Say no! Stand by your refusal, which has absolutely nothing to do with love or selfishness. But with your well-being. And with respect.
I'm worried about an HIV infection. Am I sufficiently well-protected with a condom?
If you choose the condom that fits you and you put it on correctly then it offers you exceptional protection against the possible transfer of the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), as well as further sexually transmitted diseases (STD/STI). Please only use branded products bearing the "OK" quality seal.
What should I do if the condom slips off or tears?
Don't panic! If you fear that you may be pregnant then you can use the "morning after pill" up to 72 hours after having sex. You can get the "morning after pill" from an advisory centre such as Sexuelle Gesundheit Schweiz, and from pharmacists and doctors. It inhibits ovulation and prevents fertilisation and implantation of the egg cell. However, the "morning after pill" is a massive intervention in the natural processes of the body. The rhythm of your cycle could be temporarily interrupted. The "morning after pill" is therefore an emergency solution. It does not protect against sexually transmitted diseases. If you have concerns in this regard there is only one option: Have these medically checked out by a doctor or seek professional help from an advisory centre. Right away. Up to 72 hours after situations with a clear risk of HIV transmission, it is possible to perform an HIV post-exposure prophylaxis (HIV-PEP): A medical treatment with highly effective substances that reduce the risk of possible infection.
Correct application
Sex is fun, also with a condom. Correct use of the ceylor condom is very simple. With a little practice it is almost effortless. Take your time and discover just how to use the condom correctly, so that you can also really enjoy the moment when it arrives. How it works:
1. Be careful to avoid damaging the condom with sharp nails, rough skin, jewellery, etc.
2. Only open the condom pod immediately before use. Bend the foil tip on the pod, so that you can carefully remove the foil and then gently take out the condom between your thumb and forefinger. Only draw the condom over the penis once it is fully erect, but before it comes into contact with your partner's mucosa for the first time.
3. Make sure that the condom is unrolled the right way round. Place the condom ring on the penis such that the rolled rim is on the outside. If you have attempted to unroll the condom the wrong way round, use a new one. Also ensure that no seminal fluid comes into contact with the condom's exterior.
4. Hold the condom tip between the thumb and forefinger. Lightly press the thumb and finger together so that no air remains in the tip.
5. Now draw the foreskin back slightly and roll the condom down the entire length of the erect penis using the other hand.
6. Carefully withdraw the penis shortly after ejaculation and before sleeping. When doing so hold the condom firmly at the base of the penis so that it does not slip off, to ensure that no sperm can enter your partner's vagina or anus.
7. Do not throw the condom into the toilet. Ensure that the condom is safely disposed of and cannot pose a risk of infection to others.
8. When having sex again, always use a new condom for reasons of hygiene and safety.
9. If a condom should become physically damaged during use, seek medical advice within 72 hours.