"I just unroll the condom during sex."

Hello XY, we really hope you don't do that. Secretly unrolling the condom during sex is considered physical assault / a sexual offence and is punishable by law. By doing so, you are not only putting yourself in danger, but also the other person. Sex should always take place with consent – this clearly includes consent in the use of condoms. If you don't want to have sex with condoms, discuss this honestly with your partner and inform them about it, instead of just taking it off secretly.

He just unrolled the condom without my knowledge. What should I do?

We are very sorry if this has happened to you. Secretly unrolling the condom during sex is considered physical assault / a sexual offence and is punishable by law. By doing so, that person is not only putting themselves in danger, but also their partner. Be sure to discuss the matter with your gynaecologist and have yourself tested for STDs. You can notify the other person of the incident at any time and report them.

Can I report this?

Yes, you can. Secretly unrolling the condom during sex counts as physical assault, i.e. a sexual offence, and is punishable by law. You can report the incident and take legal action against the person.

Why is that bad?

If you secretly take off the condom during sex, you put not only yourself but also the other person in danger. It is also a significant abuse of trust. Sex should always take place with consent – this clearly includes consent in the use of condoms.